Where Are You From?
People often ask where I am from, and this simple question carries a lot of meaning. It’s not just about geography; it’s about identity, culture, and the stories that shape who we are. For me, being asked “where are you from?” is both a personal and philosophical inquiry.
I was born in Shanghai, a bustling city on the eastern coast of China. Known for its modern skyline and vibrant energy, Shanghai has always been a melting pot of cultures. Growing up there, I was surrounded by ancient traditions alongside cutting-edge technology. The contrast between old and new fascinated me, as did the diversity of people I encountered daily. Whether it was the aroma of street food wafting through narrow alleys or the sleek glass towers rising above the Huangpu River, Shanghai taught me to appreciate contrasts and embrace change.
However, my sense of belonging goes beyond geographical boundaries. My parents hail from different parts of China, each bringing their own customs and flavors to our family table. My father’s Sichuanese heritage added a spicy kick to our meals, while my mother’s Fujianese roots introduced delicate seafood dishes. These culinary influences shaped my palate and reminded me that home isn’t just one place—it’s a collection of experiences and memories.
As I grew older, I realized that being from somewhere doesn’t limit me but enriches me. It allows me to connect with others who share similar backgrounds while also encouraging curiosity about places far removed from my own. Traveling has broadened my perspective even further. Exploring cities like Paris, Tokyo, and New York made me realize how interconnected our world truly is. Despite differences in language and customs, human emotions transcend borders.
So when someone asks me where I’m from, I smile and say, “A little bit of everywhere.” Because ultimately, we’re all products of the places we’ve lived, the people we’ve met, and the journeys we’ve undertaken. And perhaps that’s what makes us uniquely us.